From Amanda's very early writing (1990s to early 2000s), shared as it was originally written.
ADVANCED LEADERSHIP AND PARENTING 101! A breakout or keynote
This session will look at how others feel around you and provide simple ways to encourage, enthuse and inspire others who work or live with you. Maya Angelou said ‘people will forget what you do; they will forget what you say, but they will never forget how you made them feel.’ Come along and learn how to make others feel good, it is a secret of success in business and families that few focus on.
Details:
HOW DO PEOPLE FEEL AROUND YOU, A SECRET FOR GREAT LEADERSHIP
People will forget what; you say; they will forget what you do but they will never forget how you made them feel!
Our Spirit is our life force, it IS enthusiasm and motivation and excitement, you can crush a spirit in seconds or enliven it
Making your own handouts! As what is important to you may not be important for everyone
Create 3 columns, work/home/self
Then mark on it: how do you think people feel around you at work, home , how do you make yourself feel?
You cannot make anyone else feel a particular way, they are in charge of their feelings but, you are in charge of creating an environment in which they feel good about themselves
You CAN however, close their spirit down or open it up
So are you a SPIRIT SPARKLER OR A SPIRIT SHRINKER?! Do people feel competent around you or useless??
I am great in groups and not always so good in my personal relnships! But improving!, Husband ken brilliant in corporations and personally
Specific skills and exercises:
MMFS
SP BITS
A W R
TA DA
YOUR HEART CONNECTION, AUTHENTIC, DO THEY BELIEVE YOU, DO YOU MEAN IT? NEED TO TOUCH PEOPLE, TOUCH THEIR HEARTS
INSPIRE, ASSUME THEY ARE CAPABLE
JUDGMENT, USE JUDGMENT VS JUDGE; HEART VS HEAD; VOICE TONES
SIGNS OF A LIVING SPIRIT IN A PERSON? IN AN ORGANIZATION?
Enthusiasm
Excitement
Engagement
Encouragement
Empathy
Energy
embrace
INSPIRE =BELIEVE IN THEIR OWN GREATNESS AND CAPACITY, THEN THEY SEE OWN SPIRIT
Inspire/ideas/illuminate/imagination/incentive/invest
Trust/ ta da/tone/transcend/transform
